It Would Be Funny if It Wasnt So Sad Meaning
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The word you want is tragicomedy (noun) or tragicomic (adjective).
Laurel♦
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answered Jan 24, 2012 at 19:05
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I think bittersweet is the best word to describe this feeling.
both pleasant and painful or regretful: a bittersweet memory.
It's also less "modern" sounding than tragicomic and so would come across as more sincere.
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answered Jan 24, 2012 at 19:28
Kit Z. Fox♦ Kit Z. Fox
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Bittersweet doesn't imply funny, though.
Jan 24, 2012 at 19:31
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I think "tragic" is closer to "sad" than "sweet" is to "funny," swinging the count in favor of tragicomic over bittersweet in this example.
Jan 24, 2012 at 23:13
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I agree bittersweet is certainly more common than tragicomic in general parlance, but imho it's more akin to poignant - the "sweet" part generally implies overwhelming joy, rather than just something amusing/funny.
Jan 24, 2012 at 23:26
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I would still prefer two words like bittersweet laughter rather than the word tragicomic.
Jan 25, 2012 at 0:51
I like the word "wry," although it has a large context.
answered Jan 24, 2012 at 23:11
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Yes, I like "wry" for a lot of contexts where sadness and humour are being juxtaposed.
Jan 24, 2012 at 23:28
A general word for having simultaneous, contradictory emotions is ambivalent.
answered Jan 24, 2012 at 19:39
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According to that definition, yes, you're right. It would surprise me if that was a common usage, though. I've never heard it used that way. It's always been a lack of concern about the state of something to me. Being ambivalent about same-sex marriage to me doesn't mean your very enthusiastic about it, while also hating the idea.
Jan 25, 2012 at 0:06
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@DefenestrationDay Yeah, it normally connotes "simultaneous attraction toward and repulsion from" something or somebody [MW] -- but tragicomic had already been submitted...
Jan 25, 2012 at 0:23
Per other answers, tragicomic fits the bill - but its use is largely restricted to litcrit contexts.
In common parlance, pathos and the related pathetic are often used ironically, of something that in principle should arouse pity, but in fact is treated with wry humour. Not so common in speech is bathos, which often signifies a sudden transition from genuine pathos to ludicrous levity.
answered Jan 24, 2012 at 19:14
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But "pathetic" has largely taken on the meaning of "deserving contempt" rather than the old meaning of "deserving pity". If you say, "Bob is really pathetic" few people would reply, "Yes, I feel sorry for him, too". More likely they would say "Yes, he's a real jerk, isn't he?" or "No, I think he's a nice guy."
Jan 24, 2012 at 22:29
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@Jay: Yes, I quite agree. Pathetic has been enthusiastically taken up for all sorts of contexts including various shades of "contemptible", including those where one is effectively laughing at the person thus described (not laughing with).
Jan 24, 2012 at 23:16
Perhaps the more common choice for what you're describing is ironic, but, admittedly, doesn't necessarily capture the presence of the two elements you cite. Nor does it seem likely that any one particular word has been established that's capable of accomplishing that feat. Is that what you're looking for or will a neologism do the trick?
answered Jan 24, 2012 at 19:03
Maybe Gallows Humor isn't a perfect fit, but in general the Doom & Gloom of the style of humor could be considered to be fairly synonymous with sadness, and of course humor is basically a perfect fit for the funny half of the equation.
answered Jan 24, 2012 at 20:02
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Melancholy means for something to be both sad and happy at the same time. It has a nice, find feeling but still makes you sad
answered Apr 12, 2016 at 14:40
Since you're looking for a word describing one's state of mind and mood, and also conflicting emotions, perhaps, the word broody would help, as its first meaning is moody, meditative, introspective:
broody, adjective broodier, broodiest
moody; meditative; introspective
(of poultry) wishing to sit on or hatch eggs
(informal) (of a woman) wishing to have a baby of her own
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/broody
answered Jan 24, 2016 at 20:48
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- Dark (as in dark comedy)
- Lol-worthy (when something seems only sad, but you need to strike a funny abstract note without making a joke)
Laurel♦
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answered Jan 25, 2012 at 0:14
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I have seen lolsob.
Jan 25, 2012 at 2:31
satire:
satire ˈsaˌtī(ə)r/ noun The use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people's stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues.
Source: Oxford Dictionaries.
Synonyms:
mockery, ridicule, derision, scorn, caricature, irony, sarcasm
Source: Oxford Dictionaries.
That was what I was looking for when I came upon this thread.
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answered Aug 2, 2016 at 3:54
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I have added links to two separate pages of Oxford Dictionaries, which seem to have been the source of the quoted language above. Please identify the sources of all quoted language included in future questions and answers you post on English Language & Usage.
Aug 2, 2016 at 22:43
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Source: https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/55839/word-for-something-sad-and-funny-at-the-same-time
Although tragicomic is likely the form that the OP is looking for.
Jan 24, 2012 at 19:13
This is close, but not unequivocal. Sad and tragic share some characteristics but are not really synonyms. The OP may decide if it works for him well enough.
Jan 24, 2012 at 19:24